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		<description><![CDATA[As promised, I have weighed in at the end of week 1 since starting my weight loss plan. photo credit: bayat I now weigh 68.3kg.  Yes, I weigh more than I did last week. The most important thing to remember is that good change is gradual.  Or as Mae West said, “Anything worth doing is [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As promised, I have weighed in at the end of week 1 since starting my <a title="weight loss plan" href="http://beyondbeeton.com/weight/foodie-weight-loss-5-keys-to-managing-your-weight-without-the-sacrifice">weight loss plan</a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Fatty" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/76261353@N00/6581989/" target="_blank"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/5/6581989_717a11dac2_m.jpg" border="0" alt="Fatty" /></a><br />
<small>photo credit: <a title="bayat" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/76261353@N00/6581989/" target="_blank">bayat</a></small></p>
<p>I now weigh 68.3kg.  Yes, <strong>I weigh more than I did <a title="starting weight" href="http://beyondbeeton.com/weight/bathroom-scales-and-a-kilo-or-two-of-guilt">last week</a></strong>.</p>
<p>The most important thing to remember is that good change is gradual.  Or as Mae West said, “<em>Anything worth doing is worth doing slowly</em>.”</p>
<p>I'm not aiming for tabloid style fast weight loss. I'm aiming for a sustainable, healthier, better way of living and enjoying food. So I'm ok with the weight gain as long as I can learn from it.</p>
<p><strong>So why didn't I lose weight? </strong><span id="more-454"></span></p>
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<li>During the week I went out for high tea for a good friend's 30th and dinner for my mother's **th (deleted to protect the old) birthday.  On the same day. I didn't moderate my eating or drinking at all and had fun with friends and family.  This is ok in and of itself - but <strong>I didn't make healthier choices later in the week to balance it out</strong>.</li>
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<li>I ate because I was stressed, <strong>not because I was hungry</strong>. I was nervous about a review meeting at work and I ate to quieten the butterflies in my stomach.  I should have had a few glasses of water or gone for a brisk walk instead.</li>
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<li>I <strong>skipped a meal</strong>. I went to bed early one night and then woke up hungry at midnight.  Hot cross buns are not a nutritious, balanced dinner.</li>
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<li>I used the car when I should have walked.  <strong>I was lazy</strong>. I live walking distance from several fabulous butchers, a good greengrocer, an excellent deli, cafes and more.  Yet I relied on the car instead of my feet.  I'm not a big fan of organised exercise for exercise's sake.  I am however a big fan of reducing reliance on cars and <strong>integrating activity into normal routine</strong>.</li>
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<p>UPDATE: I just came across a fabulous post at <a href="http://www.feasiblyfitmom.com/">Feasibly Fit Mom</a> that gives examples for <a href="http://www.feasiblyfitmom.com/2009/04/top-5-five-minute-workouts.html">5 minute workouts</a> - yes, five minutes.  Even I can do that!</p>
<p>There is plenty of room for improvement this week.  I'll keep you up to date with my progress.</p>


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		<title>Bathroom scales and a kilo or two of guilt</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Extra kilos always seem to come with a bonus helping of guilt, repulsion and self-pity.  For many people this is of course a vicious cycle - a higher weight than expected on the scale results in pity relieved by excess consumption, which results in guilt and there we go all over again. Those feelings are [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">Extra kilos always seem to come with a bonus helping of guilt, repulsion and self-pity.  For many people this is of course a vicious cycle - a higher weight than expected on the scale results in pity relieved by excess consumption, which results in guilt and there we go all over again.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Those feelings are normal for many but they're not constructive.  Bashing yourself over the head with a sugary stick, no matter how delicious, is not going to motivate you.<span id="more-404"></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Fat" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/12759383@N00/83909876/" target="_blank"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/38/83909876_70cee5fff9_m.jpg" border="0" alt="Fat" /></a><br />
<small><a title="Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivs License" href="http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-nd/2.0/" target="_blank"></a> <a href="http://www.photodropper.com/photos/" target="_blank">photo</a> credit: <a title="Christi Nielsen" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/12759383@N00/83909876/" target="_blank">Christi Nielsen</a></small></p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">I weighed myself today for the first time in a long time.  I have to admit to an "oh shit" moment and bashing the scales about a bit (just to make sure they were operating properly, you understand).</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">However, I've decided that I'm not going to cut out the food I love, I'm going to cut out the guilt.  Today is the first day of an awesome attitude to food.  Eating for pleasure, not sorrow, eating for sustenance, not boredom and enjoying every minute of it.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I have a lifetime of fabulous food ahead of me - I'm not going to waste it on rubbish. Scott from <a href="http://lifespotlight.com/">Life Spotlight</a> wrote <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2009/01/the-zen-of-real-food-keeping-eating-simple">The Zen of Real Food: Keeping Eating Simple</a> over at <a href="http://zenhabits.net">Zen Habits</a> and I think this concept is key.  You can't go wrong eating fresh, whole foods. <strong>Is this perhaps the easiest diet in the world?</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><a title="357/365 - We all lose our halo sometimes." href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/23039835@N06/3285520304/" target="_blank"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3282/3285520304_97b8df4f42_m.jpg" border="0" alt="357/365 - We all lose our halo sometimes." /></a><br />
<small><a title="Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivs License" href="http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-nd/2.0/" target="_blank"></a> <a href="http://www.photodropper.com/photos/" target="_blank">photo</a> credit: <a title="just.K" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/23039835@N06/3285520304/" target="_blank">just.K</a></small></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I am going to stuff up sometimes. I'm going to pick up a pack of kfc chips in a moment of weakness every now and again.  I'll realise I didn't enjoy it all that much and that the calories weren't worth it.  I'm going to allow myself <em>not to be perfect</em> - I'm going to accept it and move on.  <strong>But I'm not going to eat a block of chocolate to make myself feel better for eating chips</strong>.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">So here we go. I'm not going to make any excuses about water retention or the fact my ringletty hair is almost down to my waist and weighs an awful lot. <strong> Today I weigh 67.9 kilograms</strong>.  That gives me a BMI of 24.9 which means I'm in the healthy bracket by the skin of my teeth. That also gives me plenty of room for improvement on my small frame.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I'm using free website <a href="http://calorieking.com.au">Calorie King</a> to track my weight and progress.  It also has useful features to check the calorie and nutrient values of a range of foods (including commercial products).  I'll also check in here every week to keep myself accountable.  You're welcome to join me.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Check in soon for some low calorie, minimally processed, healthy meal ideas, or offer your own suggestions in the comments.</p>


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